Thursday, September 29, 2011

Teeanage pregnancy: its effects, and causes

     Teen pregnancy is currently one of the most common problems in our society. It is no longer frowned upon as it was in previous epochs, but sometimes it is even celebrated. teen pregnancy isn't be a thing worth celebrating, but is a thing worth crying for. Teenage mothers give up their liberties, they often times struggle through life, and lose many wonderful opportunities. if a female has a child in high school, then college seems almost impossible to think about, because their first priority will be their child. As a teenage mother you no longer have a life of your own, and seeing as how teenage mothers are too young to have experienced life, it's almost as if you have no life at all, as if you've never lived.

     There are certain life experiences that people go through, that helps them discover who they are, are what their purpose in life is. Teenage mothers often times don't have the opportunity to discover or go through these experiences. A big portion of their young adult life is lost, where one is free to see the world and sometimes make a difference. teenage mothers don't often have the chance to live life to the fullest, and seeing as taking care of a baby prevents them from attaining a better education, they often only have meagre resources, or means to provide for their child. now that is not to say that teenage fathers don't often fall on hard times as well, but most of the time the responsibility, and hardship of raising, and taking care of the baby falls on the female.

     The main causes of teen pregnancy in developed countries like the United States, are often poverty, child abuse, dug/alcohol abuse, and inadequate sex education. but i believe the main cause of teen pregnancy is society itself. In a majority of schools, sex education no longer preaches about abstinence, but give out condomns and talk about when to have sex. Most popular movies and tv shows, almost always have a sex scene, or a sexual oriented plot. the media, in order to sell more of their stuff often incorporate pornography or sex idols in their advertisements. What kind of message do they think they're sending our teenagers. As an older sibling, my parents have always told me that i should lead by example, well i now send the same message to our society, we must lead by example.

6 comments:

  1. Some young adults don't realize the tremendous affects that pregnancy will bring to their lives until it happens. I noticed and appreciated how you provided the male perspective of this topic seeing as most people discussing this topic didn't include that...including me. I agree more schools need to be advocating abstinence instead of just protection. Good job!

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  2. Bonus points for awesomeness of blog title. Great post!

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  3. Yes you are the first blog to mention the male aspect of this situation. I also think that one of the main causes for teen pregnancy is the men since they think with their "other head" rather than their actual head. You will see i posted the same comment on Tim's blog, but it is worth mentioning again, "the most safe sex is no sex at all".

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  4. Yeah, I agree that society has been more inclined to promote sex recently. But hey, at least their promoting safe, protected sex. But still, it doesn't seem that kids follow their advice anyways.

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  5. I agree 100%. Sex is everywhere even implicitly in cartoons that kids watch and as a result our youth has become a little bit too inquisitive about having it without considering the consequences of it. Some teens moms do mature from it while others tend to stay in denial but ultimately their liberties are sacrificed because of their decision.

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  6. Awesome post! The only thing that I have not really seen people addressing on teen pregnancy is the affects it has on the children that are born. The children are being blamed by their parents for ruining their lives. The children usually grow up in a single parent family amongst turmoil and chaos. This influences them to repeat the actions of their parents or maybe even become depressed. I believe once a teen has the child, if they can't take care of it properly than they should give it up for adoption.

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